The Dreaded Interlude: A Guide to Waiting-Out Admission Decisions

“College isn't the destination, it is a stepping stone.” And yet, as the college admissions season sweeps by with its swift winds, millions of students break out in night sweats trying to calmly live their lives without the constant reminder that their life's worth could be determined any second. Even those who get a good night's sleep are not safe from the clutches of the colorful envelope icon in their email inbox. Despite college decisions being possibly the most significant affair of a student's life, they shouldn't put their lives on hold for months while the admissions officers review their applications. In order for those hardworking students to relax, they should adopt a few rituals to help them adapt.

Foremost, no matter how intimidating the concept of destiny in an envelope is, there is nothing one can do after pressing the submit button but hope and pray that they are accepted. As soon as all applications are submitted, the hard part is over. All that can be done is to garner internal faith and the faith of others for support during this delicate time.

Moreover, instead of thinking of the waiting period as a mourning period in which students scrutinize all of their past work, they should try thinking of it as a gift to award their diligence. During this time, there are plenty of hours of relaxation that can be achieved. The hardest thing that a student is required to do is click a button to check on the university's portal every once in a while. Other than that, they can take this time as a well-deserved vacation from university matters. It is very crucial for students to take breaks in order for them to regain their strength for their long-awaited news.

Finally, college is a threshold of additional knowledge with a few more perks than high school – nothing more, nothing less. The possibility of not getting accepted to a dream university is not the end; it is a chance at a different destiny. Students should keep in mind that at uncertain times, integrity should always remain intact. So, during these chaotic days of contemplation, they should take the time to sit alone and think about what it is they want to achieve in life. If not in their chosen university, then somewhere else. Willpower accompanied by faith transcends all.

All in all, pending admission decisions should not be something to fret about. Students can relieve anxiety by doing things they enjoy for a change, maintaining faith, and strengthening their integrity bonds. There is always a reward, whether it is in an acceptance letter or in the maturity obtained from taking on the responsibility of getting ready for college.